What to do if the child is disobedient

 It is normal for the child to be under the control of the parents. What is the need for strategy again? It may seem so. However, due to some mistakes of the parents, the child may be disobedient. So teach the child properly so that he can be your loyal child. Lastly, he can develop into an honest and beautiful person.

Involuntary Forgiveness of Forgiveness: Although we are older and more conscientious than children, it must be acknowledged that no human is at fault. When you realize you have made a mistake and you regret it, do not hesitate to apologize directly. In this way, just as you will be transparent and impartial to your child, your child will also receive this great lesson from you. Then there will be no room for unnecessary distance or misunderstanding between parents and children.

Avoid judging everything by age: Just because you are older doesn't mean that all your decisions or actions are always right and the child's opinion is always wrong. Always consider the child as a person of a different entity and give importance to his own likes and dislikes. Talk openly with him and if his opinion is reasonable even if it conflicts with your opinion, still accept it in a cool head without reacting.

Praise: Praise for bringing the child under control. Thank you. When your child does something good, praise him and encourage him to do something good. If you can thank him for his positive work, give him a reward for his work. This will increase his self-confidence and encourage him to do better.

Teach to be clear about your position: Many children grow up to be liars. The main reason for this is the distance of the relationship with the parents. When the child is afraid to share something directly with you, he will have a tendency to hide his mistake by lying. Teach your child to be clear about their position before this situation arises.

Give ideas about right and wrong and advantages and disadvantages: Give wrong and right ideas to bring the child under control. Just as you will reward him for doing the right thing, never reprimand him for doing the wrong thing. Explain that you should not make such a mistake at other times. Help him get out of this mistake. You will see that if you forget or have a problem, he will tell you first and try to get out of it. As a result, the same mistake will not be repeated a second time and you will be safe.

Give the child time, make the relationship friendly: In many cases the child is not given enough time due to the busy schedule of the parents. As a result, the child does not notice what he is doing or who he is associating with. This gives the child a chance to go the wrong way. Parents need to pay attention to this issue so that there is no communication gap. Give them enough time to maintain a friendly relationship with the child. Go out on holidays, cook and feed yourself at home. Listen to them, play sports. In order to bring the child under control, the child must understand that if you make a tough decision by arguing, it can be counterproductive. Keep the child away from electronic devices as much as possible, make the relationship with yourself easier.

In order to bring the child under control and for the good of the child, the above mentioned things must be given importance. It is difficult to solve the problem, but if you deal with the problem sincerely, there is a solution to all the problems. Good luck to your children, good luck to all the members of each family.